Thought of the Day: When Enough Is Enough

December 23, 2025

“Be at war with your vices, at peace with your neighbors, and let every new year find you a better man.” — Benjamin Franklin

This quote sounds neat and tidy until you slow down long enough to feel its weight.

Being at war with your vices is rarely dramatic. It is quiet. Most days it looks like restraint. Choosing not to indulge something just because it is there. Stopping earlier than you usually would. Letting a moment end without squeezing every last drop out of it.

Being at peace with your neighbors is similar. It is not about closeness or agreement. It is about deciding not to let every small irritation turn into a lasting story. A surprising amount of conflict survives simply because no one is willing to let it end.

And becoming better is not about reinvention. It is about awareness. Noticing where you tend to overstay. Conversations that loop. Habits that linger. Moments that were good but did not need to keep going.

This time of year makes restraint harder. Everything feels important. Everything feels fleeting. So we hold on longer than necessary, thinking that stretching something makes it more meaningful.

Sometimes meaning comes from knowing when enough is enough.

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