December 26, 2025
The day after Christmas has a very specific feeling.
It is quieter. The buildup is gone. The pressure has mostly evaporated. What is left is you, your body, your house, and whatever emotional debris did not get packed away with the decorations.
This is not a planning day. It is not a resolution day. It is not even really a reflection day in the polished sense. It is more like a taking stock day. You look around and notice what is still ringing in your ears and what has finally gone silent.
That is where today’s Thought of the Day and Question of the Day meet.
Thought of the Day
“Rest is not idle, it is not wasteful. Sometimes rest is the most productive thing you can do.” -Erica Layne
That sentence hits differently on December 26.
Not in a spa day, candles, intentional self care way. More in a sore feet, foggy brain, slightly fried nervous system way.
This kind of rest is not glamorous. It is not scheduled. It usually looks like sitting longer than you meant to. Or staring at nothing while your coffee goes cold. Or realizing you have been quiet for ten minutes and no one needs anything from you.
There is a reason rest feels earned right now. You just carried a lot. Not just the visible things like gifts, food, travel, or logistics. You carried expectations. Other people’s emotions. Old family patterns. The internal pressure to make things feel special or meaningful or at least not disappointing.
That takes energy. Even when nothing went wrong.
Rest after that is not quitting. It is recovery.
We live in a culture that treats rest like a reward for finishing everything perfectly. But that is not how humans actually work. Rest is part of the work. It is how your body closes the loop. It is how your nervous system realizes the sprint is over.
Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is let yourself stop reacting.
Stop fixing. Stop narrating. Stop replaying conversations in your head. Stop grading yourself on how well you performed the holidays.
Rest says, we survived this stretch. We are allowed to exhale.
If you want to explore more moments like this, you can wander through the Thought of the Day archive without needing to do anything with what you find.
Question of the Day
Now that Christmas is past, what are you glad is over?
This is not an ungrateful question. It is an honest one.
There is a strange pressure to only speak kindly about holidays once they pass. To remember the highlights. To share the good photos. To say it was nice and mean it.
But relief is not the same thing as resentment.
You can be grateful and still be glad something ended.
Maybe you are glad the calendar pressure is over. Or the constant mental math of who needs what and when. Maybe you are glad you no longer have to be on. No longer have to perform cheer or patience or enthusiasm on demand.
Maybe you are glad a certain conversation did not need to happen again. Or that a particular dynamic is on pause for another year.
Maybe you are simply glad the noise stopped.
Naming what you are glad is over is not negativity. It is information. It tells you where your energy leaked. It shows you which parts of the season cost you the most.
That information matters.
Because if you skip past it too quickly, you will repeat it next year without understanding why you dread certain parts. Awareness is how patterns loosen.
You do not need to publish your answer. You do not need to justify it. You can write it in a notes app and delete it. You can think it quietly while loading the dishwasher. You can say it out loud to no one.
The point is not to complain. The point is to tell the truth.
If you want more invitations like this, the Question of the Day archive is full of questions that do not demand optimism. Just honesty.
The day after Christmas is not a reset button. It is more like a landing strip. You are touching down after being airborne for a while.
Let yourself land.
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