November 18, 2025
A funny thing happens as you get older. The things you used to roll your eyes at suddenly become the things you need. You hear yourself saying sentences you swore you’d never say, like “Wow, the traffic wasn’t bad at all today,” or “This is a really good pen,” or “I think I’m just going to stay in tonight.”
And the wildest part? You mean it.
Today’s Question of the Day hits right in the middle of that shift: What’s something you appreciate more now that you’re older?
If I answered this question at age 19, I probably would’ve said something like “sleep” while running on four hours and a questionable energy drink. At 25, maybe I would’ve said “quiet,” even though I didn’t know what real quiet was yet. At 35, I might’ve said “people who text back,” because adulthood is just realizing communication is hard for everybody.
But now? Now my answer is simpler, softer, and far less glamorous.
I appreciate mornings. Not the dragging-myself-out-of-bed part, but the moment right after. The moment when the air is still, the house hasn’t woken up yet, and I get to feel like a human being before the day starts asking for things. Younger me sprinted past that moment without even noticing it. Older me guards it like it’s made of gold.
I appreciate honesty, the kind that isn’t dramatic, just real. The kind that says, “Yeah, today was hard,” without needing to turn it into a performance. Growing up taught me that honest people are rare, and honest moments are even rarer.
I appreciate my parents more than I ever did when I was living under their roof and eating their groceries. Back then, I thought they had everything figured out. Turns out they were improvising, too. Loving me, teaching me, and messing up slightly less than I did when I became a parent. Realizing that has softened me in ways I didn’t expect.
Know what else I appreciate? Boring days. Those days that used to feel like nothing was happening? Now they feel like a gift. No emergencies, no emotional roller coasters, no unexpected plot twists, just a day that begins, moves along, and ends without demanding all my energy. When you’re younger, boring feels like a curse. When you’re older, boring feels like peace.
And here’s a weird one: I appreciate letting things go. Not everything needs a speech. Not everything needs to be fixed. Not everything needs to be won. Sometimes maturity is just knowing when to walk away for the sake of your own sanity, even if you technically “could” stay and fight.
The truth is, you don’t realize how many things you took for granted until life gives you a few miles of perspective. The older I get, the more I realize the small things were never small, they were just quiet. And I was too loud to hear them.
So today’s Question of the Day is really an invitation to notice the things you used to speed past. To ask yourself what’s grown in value, not because it changed, but because you did.
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